Dear Harlan: I’m a little confused. I took a girl out on a second date, and she told me she has a boyfriend at home. She still wants to continue dating me. I’m very attracted to her. Should I just mess around with her, or leave her alone? — Conflicted
Dear Conflicted: You’re not confused, you’re just horny. Leave the cheater alone. You don’t need a jealous ex-boyfriend knocking at your door at 3 a.m.. There are plenty of single women who can give you what you want. Besides, a person who is this comfortable cheating on her current boyfriend will have no problem cheating on you. Just you wait. I don’t care how hot she is — her behavior is ugly and reckless. Tell her that you’re not comfortable dating someone who’s in a relationship and don’t mess around.
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